We know that buying your first vibrator can be intimidating: there are so many great products to choose from, and even the most confident among us can get a bit squeamish on the topic of sexual satisfaction. We’ve taken out the guesswork and potential embarrassment with our round-up of the best beginner vibrators.

The best relationships start nice and easy, and these vibrators promise just that. All are discreet — but powerful — one-speed external vibrators to get you going. The Pocket Rocket is a classic for a reason, and it takes the cake by being both ultra intuitive and ultra satisfying from the get-go: it’s basically the point-and-shoot of vibrators. Runner up Iroha Mini is as cute as candy with a unique shape — play around with the position to find what feels good for you — while Cheap Thrill FingO Tips are a great intermediate step between your own fingers and more powerful stimulation (and they make a fun party favor, too!). Whichever you choose, all three meet Tidy Kitten’s bodysafe standards, so you can just lie back, relax, and focus on getting to know each other.